http://dads.aberean.org "Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it." Fri, 02 Jul 2010 09:21:56 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 http://dads.aberean.org/2010/07/02/tell-your-kids-you-love-them/.html http://dads.aberean.org/2010/07/02/tell-your-kids-you-love-them/.html#comments Fri, 02 Jul 2010 09:21:56 +0000 admin http://dads.aberean.org/?p=1178
While most of you had love in your family as you grew up, many times it was not expressed verbally from your father. Continue reading →]]> http://dads.aberean.org/2010/07/02/tell-your-kids-you-love-them/.html/feed 0 http://dads.aberean.org/2010/01/19/man-to-man-hard-lessons-from-littleton-colorado/.html http://dads.aberean.org/2010/01/19/man-to-man-hard-lessons-from-littleton-colorado/.html#comments Tue, 19 Jan 2010 20:50:04 +0000 dads http://dads.aberean.org/2010/01/19/man-to-man-hard-lessons-from-littleton-colorado/.html By Pastor Paul LeBoutillier The tragedy in Littleton, Colorado has had no small impact on the people of the United States, and the world! Some see a foreboding picture of the spiritual and emotional condition of our children and I … Continue reading →]]> http://dads.aberean.org/2010/01/19/man-to-man-hard-lessons-from-littleton-colorado/.html/feed 0 http://dads.aberean.org/2010/01/01/individualize-each-childs-upbringing/.html http://dads.aberean.org/2010/01/01/individualize-each-childs-upbringing/.html#comments Fri, 01 Jan 2010 20:45:00 +0000 dads http://dads.aberean.org/2010/01/01/individualize-each-childs-upbringing/.html   It is very important for us to understand that none of our children are alike, and parents should individualize their raising of each child. Besides doing everything we can to help our children receive Christ as their Savior at … Continue reading →]]> http://dads.aberean.org/2010/01/01/individualize-each-childs-upbringing/.html/feed 0 http://dads.aberean.org/2009/11/02/vibrant-relationship/.html http://dads.aberean.org/2009/11/02/vibrant-relationship/.html#comments Tue, 03 Nov 2009 06:49:55 +0000 dads http://dads.aberean.org/?p=339 Please do all you can to help your children get the real thing and not just go through the motions of going to church or acting a certain way when they know you’re looking. Continue reading →]]> http://dads.aberean.org/2009/11/02/vibrant-relationship/.html/feed 0 http://dads.aberean.org/2009/10/02/proper-friends-are-critical-2/.html http://dads.aberean.org/2009/10/02/proper-friends-are-critical-2/.html#comments Sat, 03 Oct 2009 06:32:06 +0000 dads http://dads.aberean.org/?p=337 Many parents do not learn until it’s too late, that it is critical what kind of friends you allow your children to have. Your kid’s friends are going to play a large part in shaping your children’s values. Continue reading →]]> http://dads.aberean.org/2009/10/02/proper-friends-are-critical-2/.html/feed 0 http://dads.aberean.org/2009/09/11/sexual-purity-2/.html http://dads.aberean.org/2009/09/11/sexual-purity-2/.html#comments Fri, 11 Sep 2009 07:55:29 +0000 dads http://dads.aberean.org/?p=333 With all the sexual issues in today’s culture, fathers need to work hard at protecting and teaching their children from an early age about this critical area of their upbringing. Continue reading →]]> http://dads.aberean.org/2009/09/11/sexual-purity-2/.html/feed 0 http://dads.aberean.org/2009/07/09/put-time-into-your-children/.html http://dads.aberean.org/2009/07/09/put-time-into-your-children/.html#comments Thu, 09 Jul 2009 08:37:29 +0000 dads http://dads.aberean.org/?p=326 Please do not make the mistake of spending too much time ministering to others at the expense of your own children while you have them living at home. Continue reading →]]> http://dads.aberean.org/2009/07/09/put-time-into-your-children/.html/feed 0 http://dads.aberean.org/2009/06/01/dress-and-work-codes-2/.html http://dads.aberean.org/2009/06/01/dress-and-work-codes-2/.html#comments Mon, 01 Jun 2009 17:01:50 +0000 dads http://dads.aberean.org/?p=321 This newsletter has two key points for your preteen and teenage children, especially with summer coming. It is Biblical for daughters to dress modestly and for sons to work appropriately. Continue reading →]]> http://dads.aberean.org/2009/06/01/dress-and-work-codes-2/.html/feed 0 http://dads.aberean.org/2009/05/07/husband%e2%80%99s-top-priority/.html http://dads.aberean.org/2009/05/07/husband%e2%80%99s-top-priority/.html#comments Thu, 07 May 2009 15:31:34 +0000 dads http://dads.aberean.org/?p=317 Many people would say that a husband’s first responsibility, after his relationship with Jesus, is to provide for and protect his wife and children. While this is important, the Bible has something even better. Continue reading →]]> http://dads.aberean.org/2009/05/07/husband%e2%80%99s-top-priority/.html/feed 2 http://dads.aberean.org/2009/04/07/just-do-your-best/.html http://dads.aberean.org/2009/04/07/just-do-your-best/.html#comments Tue, 07 Apr 2009 15:24:22 +0000 dads http://dads.aberean.org/?p=313 Do your children know that winning a game, or being class president, or getting an A in class is not what matters most to God? Continue reading →]]> http://dads.aberean.org/2009/04/07/just-do-your-best/.html/feed 0 http://dads.aberean.org/2009/03/07/share-the-gospel/.html http://dads.aberean.org/2009/03/07/share-the-gospel/.html#comments Sat, 07 Mar 2009 19:40:49 +0000 dads http://dads.aberean.org/?p=118 Are you teaching your children about sharing the Gospel with people? Are you helping them memorize the specific Bible verses for this and talking about what to do? Continue reading →]]> http://dads.aberean.org/2009/03/07/share-the-gospel/.html/feed 0 http://dads.aberean.org/2009/02/09/purity-ring/.html http://dads.aberean.org/2009/02/09/purity-ring/.html#comments Mon, 09 Feb 2009 17:25:35 +0000 dads http://dads.aberean.org/?p=115 How do you plan to work with your children, to help them maintain sexual purity until marriage? A purity ring or special memento as early as junior high school could play a significant part in the process. Continue reading →]]> http://dads.aberean.org/2009/02/09/purity-ring/.html/feed 0 http://dads.aberean.org/2009/01/15/can-i-borrow-2500/.html http://dads.aberean.org/2009/01/15/can-i-borrow-2500/.html#comments Fri, 16 Jan 2009 02:04:11 +0000 dads http://dads.aberean.org/?p=112 A man came home late as usual from work, tired and irritated, to find his seven year old son waiting for him at the door. SON: 'Daddy, may I ask you a question?' DAD: 'Yes, sure, what it is?' he replied. Continue reading →]]> http://dads.aberean.org/2009/01/15/can-i-borrow-2500/.html/feed 0 http://dads.aberean.org/2008/12/10/talk-to-your-kids-about-what-they-are-doing-in-cyberspace/.html http://dads.aberean.org/2008/12/10/talk-to-your-kids-about-what-they-are-doing-in-cyberspace/.html#comments Wed, 10 Dec 2008 08:32:31 +0000 dads http://dads.aberean.org/?p=90 Talk to your kids about what they are doing in cyberspace. Just as you need to talk openly and honestly with your kids about real-life sex and relationships, you also want to discuss online and cell phone activity. Make sure your kids fully understand that messages or pictures they send over the Internet or their cell phones are not truly private or anonymous. Also make sure they know that others might forward their pictures or messages to people they do not know or want to see them, and that school administrators and employers often look at online profiles to make judgments about potential students/employees. It's essential that your kids grasp the potential short-term and long-term consequences of their actions. Continue reading →]]> http://dads.aberean.org/2008/12/10/talk-to-your-kids-about-what-they-are-doing-in-cyberspace/.html/feed 0 http://dads.aberean.org/2008/12/04/sharing/.html http://dads.aberean.org/2008/12/04/sharing/.html#comments Thu, 04 Dec 2008 08:16:52 +0000 dads http://www.aberean.org/wp_dads/?p=84 Dear Dads,       It is really important for children to learn that the universe does not revolve around them.  Making sure they know that other people are just as important to God, and helping them learn to share … Continue reading →]]> http://dads.aberean.org/2008/12/04/sharing/.html/feed 0 http://dads.aberean.org/2008/11/11/most-important-commandment/.html http://dads.aberean.org/2008/11/11/most-important-commandment/.html#comments Wed, 12 Nov 2008 06:40:03 +0000 dads http://www.aberean.org/wp_dads/?p=77 November 2008   Dear Dads,     Here is a question for you.  What is the most important commandment according to the Bible?    Certainly this is something you would want your children to know, and live by, and Jesus … Continue reading →]]> http://dads.aberean.org/2008/11/11/most-important-commandment/.html/feed 0 http://dads.aberean.org/2008/09/01/individual-assignment-from-the-lord/.html http://dads.aberean.org/2008/09/01/individual-assignment-from-the-lord/.html#comments Tue, 02 Sep 2008 05:02:58 +0000 dads http://www.aberean.org/wp_dads/?p=17 Dear Dads, It is exciting that the Lord has certain things He would like each of your children to be involved with during their lifetime. One of the important jobs for a parent is to help each child find the … Continue reading →]]> http://dads.aberean.org/2008/09/01/individual-assignment-from-the-lord/.html/feed 0 http://dads.aberean.org/2008/08/01/being-teachable/.html http://dads.aberean.org/2008/08/01/being-teachable/.html#comments Sat, 02 Aug 2008 05:55:52 +0000 dads http://www.aberean.org/wp_dads/?p=20 Dear Dads, To be teachable is a tremendous attribute to have. Oh the hardships and pain that could be avoided, and the blessings that would abound, if children would learn to listen and respond to what the Lord and their … Continue reading →]]> http://dads.aberean.org/2008/08/01/being-teachable/.html/feed 0 http://dads.aberean.org/2008/07/01/presumptuousness/.html http://dads.aberean.org/2008/07/01/presumptuousness/.html#comments Wed, 02 Jul 2008 06:05:51 +0000 dads http://www.aberean.org/wp_dads/?p=26 Dear Dads, Many adults cringe when they think of how they have been self-centered and presumptuous in the past. Please don’t let your children make those mistakes as they grow up. Definition of presumptuous: “taking too much for granted; too … Continue reading →]]> http://dads.aberean.org/2008/07/01/presumptuousness/.html/feed 0 http://dads.aberean.org/2008/06/01/guard-your-eyes/.html http://dads.aberean.org/2008/06/01/guard-your-eyes/.html#comments Mon, 02 Jun 2008 06:19:06 +0000 dads http://www.aberean.org/wp_dads/?p=27 Dear Dads, It is critical that your children know the importance of controlling what they look at. Anything involving certain female body parts, even covered, is of course a major issue for guys, but what are your daughters looking at … Continue reading →]]> http://dads.aberean.org/2008/06/01/guard-your-eyes/.html/feed 0